Some of my friends love chatting online, even when we were still studying, and I believe that that's how some of them met their future husbands. They don't mind if their soul mate could be one of the Black Males in this world (which you can find over at BlackScene.com), as long as they know that the guy is sincere and really loves them. In fact, an older friend got married years ago to a guy she met online and they have been together ever since ... together with their two lovely kids.
I believe that it's mostly a matter of trust and understanding, when it comes to relationships. :)